The secure seek new experiences, the insecure secure there experiences?

seeing how short life is, why not walk out on a new limb rather than build a fort on a strong limb.
The secure seek new experiences, the insecure secure there experiences?
%26quot;the insecure secure THEIR experiences?%26quot; Sorry, it was bothering me. Maybe they don%26#039;t walk out on a new limb because they are sick of people telling them what to do.
The secure seek new experiences, the insecure secure there experiences?
I think it is the other way around.The secure are content and may not seek new experiences .The insecure seek to get their security.Your example also supports this view.
Reply:seeking/realising/accepting new experiences makes one secure,


just think what kind of experiences does insecure fellow needs to secure
Reply:I agree with yogiraj, it%26#039;s the other way around.


Being insecure myself I always seek new experiences.
Reply:Insecure people can not secure anything.
Reply:Absolutely!


That has been my philosophy for many years. And you know what? I%26#039;ve actually had many experiences, good and bad, but at least I%26#039;ve experienced life%26#039;s adventures. I%26#039;ve learned a great deal through these experiences. I%26#039;ve grown as a person and in maturity because I allowed myself to leap before looking.


I am now more secure than anyone of my siblings, who never did experience too much of life. And I continue to seek out new adventures to learn from, even in my later years of life.





I have at least one relative who has lived almost her entire life in one town, in one house, with the same people around her, doing the same thing all the time. I%26#039;m sure in some ways she has also experienced life, but for the most part she has built a fortress around herself to keep out life%26#039;s experiences.
Reply:when I was younger I was always anxious, nervous and scared of almost everything -out of my small universe. But the greater world just kept changing and I managed to grow just like every other soul around. Things, people and myself included changed. I resisted a lot -yet I had sought and not merely wished to grow up. I came to a realization, like everyone would, that experiences are necessary.





So why don%26#039;t you ask how many people actually built their own securities from their insecurities? We all yearn for changes if they could be for the better. When people venture on to silence an insecure past they will always be haunted, consciously or not. Yes, everyone has a different threshold -how much you have convinced yourself to your dealings with your past experiences will define that limit.





Think about it pal, how much you%26#039;re willing to seek that new frontier depends on how much you would relearn from previous experiences. Even babies do that... Only the truly secure people have confronted and won against their own ghost. The insecure will stay put in their %26#039;fort%26#039; and convince themselves with the comfort of their lives.
Reply:What%26#039;s for sure is, we%26#039;re busy transitioning from secure to insecure and back again. What else is for sure is, we are all constantly in a mix of becoming... -- becoming %26#039;something%26#039;.
Reply:The west concentrates on te temporary or partial sucess that belongs to the present life